“There are so many things but one that really bothers me is video games. I know his job is demanding and he’s constantly busy, but as soon as he gets home he grabs his iPad or turns on the PS4. That isn’t terrible but if we have plans and I have to tell him to stop playing and get ready he gets all moody and ruins the night because his mind is still in a different reality.”
Was Sam asked the worst thing men do as a grouped gender or the worst thing that her boyfriend does? This seems pretty specific. Is Sam dating her son? This sounds a lot like a mom complaining about her teen child. So yeah, I agree with her? Dump him? Stop dating a child.
That last sentence is pretty funny. Kid can't function at the restaurant because his mind is still in the video game. Just running around killing nazis or throwing touch down passes while Sam is trying to enjoy a meal out.
“When a guy assumes that because they’ve taken you out now you ‘owe them something’. And when guys cat call on the street- because yes, after you whistled at me and said, ‘hey ma’, I might consider turning around to give you my number…
The first point...
A good standard rule for relationships is to find things you both enjoy doing together and do those things. If there isn't anything you can find that you enjoy in each other company then break up. Then, every now and then there is a give and take. So if the guy you're dating hates going out to dinner but he takes you out because he knows it makes you happy then yeah, you should do something he wants to do, that you might not enjoy, the next time. I think that's about as fair and as simple as it gets.
The second point
If you are a guy and you cat call at girls on the street then you're a bad guy.
“If I ever get a follow up text of “??” When I haven’t answered the first text, you’re dead to me.”
Alyssa, you are a horrible texter and I hate you. If someone texts you a question, respond to that question. Bad texters are so annoying. You can't never respond and just let it linger. Give me a damn response or I'm going to think you're being a jerk on purpose. I don't send the "??" because those are annoying as well. Use words.
I went to meet a guy for ice cream and this guy was eating ice cream before I even got there ! Like, what the f*ck!
Inviting a girl on an ice cream date and then ordering your own ice cream before she even arrives is so rude it make me laugh out loud. What the fuck indeed Jennette. That's some real lack of social awareness.
This second part though, that is exactly the reason why guys say girls are confusing as shit and talk in code.
"When we say we don’t know what we want, we just don’t want to disappoint and like hearing you decide" - Well when we ask you what you want and you constantly say you don't know that is the definition of disappointing. So your plan is not working.
“LAWD, where to begin? Just kidding!! Turn offs in a guy; bad relationship with his mother or any other member of his family. Smoking, cigarettes or weed or vaping- it’s all gross. Someone who doesn’t understand being tight with family, like helping out my mom was always a huge issue. A guy that has no plans for the future.”
PREACH! I agree with everything Brittany said. Same shit goes for a girl. "Smoking, cigarettes or weed or vaping - it's all gross." Amen. That is number one turn off and by a landslide. I remember in college seeing a hot girl in the library and I kept looking at her and thinking, man she's super attractive. Then I saw her outside the library smoking a cigarette and she went from a 10 to a zero in an instant. The Family stuff is spot on as well. Guy or girl, if you hate your own family it's not a good look.
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